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After continually witnessing individuals
afflicted with the diseases of substance
abuse, chemical dependence, and compulsive
pathological gambling relapse for the lack
of adequate long-term supportive
services, I founded Hope for Tomorrow, Inc.
to serve as a beacon of hope to recovering
individuals and their families. Since its
inception, in October 1999, Hope for
Tomorrow has assisted over 145 men and women
develop a life that centers around their
recovery and return to society as sober,
responsible, productive, accountable,
law-abiding, taxpaying citizens. These men
and women, once hopelessly addicted to
alcohol; cocaine; heroin; gambling; and
prescription medications, reported
that their top fifteen relapse triggers
were, in ranking order: boredom, loneliness,
quit doing the maintenance portion for
recovery, low self-esteem, isolation, anger,
financial/money, lack of support network,
guilt, relationships, inability to ask for
help, depression, resentments, stress, and
insufficient spiritual connection.
The combination of structure and
supportive services, offered through Hope
for Tomorrow, helps the newly recovering
individual develop a comprehensive sobriety
plan in all fifteen areas of relapse
prevention. Seventy-two percent of HFT
clients enter our residential programs
unemployed. Within seven days, residents
secure and maintain full-time employment,
and begin the process of self-sufficiency.
Employment has a multitude of benefits.
First, it fosters accountability and
responsibility. Next, employment develops
self-worth; promotes an overall feeling of
well-being; improves time management skills;
provides direction and purpose in life;
reduces depressive symptoms; develops
relationships; alleviates boredom, and
reduces guilt through productivity. ity.
So, as you can see, helping the newly
recovering individual secure and maintain
full-time (legitimate) employment is a key
in relapse prevention. But, employment
alone is not enough. What about impulse
control; delaying immediate toxic shame;
resentments; insufficient or misconceived
spirituality; egotistical thinking; stress
management; selfless—rather than selfish
thinking; complacency; identifying and
implementing life’s priorities; building
recovery-based relationships; establishing a
balanced lifestyle, addressing biomedical,
physiological, legal, and emotional
complications; and repairing shattered
family relationships? HFT addresses these
relapse issues through weekly education
groups, and ongoing counseling sessions with
clients. The results, although over 95%
(140) of HFT clients enter our residential
program homeless, only 3.10% (4) leave
homeless; 74.42% (96) secure independent
living, and 17.83% (23) secure dependent
living (e.g., move back home with family or
other relatives). And, of the 72.60% (106)
that enter HFT unemployed, 85.27% (110)
secure full-time employment, and another
3.88% (5) secure part-time employment. All
clients receive comprehensive, ongoing
weekly education that addresses the fifteen
areas of relapse prevention, and, at this
time, our average increase in longest period
of uninterrupted sobriety is 631%. 31%. 31%.
While these statistics are staggering,
there is an important aspect of recovery
that deserves to be discussed. Upon
admission, the vast majority of our clients
have an estranged relationship with a God of
their understanding. One hundred and
forty-four (99%) of HFT clients report a
childhood spiritual belief in Jesus Christ,
but one hundred and twenty-two (83%) state
that their addiction has drawn them away
from God—leaving them tormented with fears.
I am committed to the belief that without a
deep meaningful relationship with God, life
is empty. Therefore, in an effort to assist
clients develop and nurture their
spirituality, we are collaborating with
local ministries (e.g., Ginger Creek
Community Church, Christ Community Church,
Community Christian Church, St. John’s
Lutheran Church, and others). These
ministries will offer mentors and small
groups to HFT clients to assist them rebuild
their faith and live in a Christ-like
manner. Psalm 16: 7-11, provides us with
peace of mind and guides us from falling
into sin: “I will bless the Lord who guides
me; even at night my heart instructs me. I
know the Lord is always with me. I will not
be shaken, for he is right beside me. No
wonder my heart is filled with joy, and my
mouth shouts his praises! My body rests in
safety. For you will not leave my soul
among the dead or allow your godly one to
rot in the grave. You will show me the way
of life, granting me the joy of your
presence and the pleasures of living with
you forever”. May the peace and joy of the
Lord be with you and your family—today and
in the days to come. s to come.
Jeff Gilbert
Founder & Executive
Director
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